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By Kanika Bedi on September 10, 2008

Balika Vadhu: Kacchi Umar ke Pakke Rishte

When the majority of the leading Hindi channels seemed to have been ruled over by the customary Saas-Bahu soaps, in which women have nothing much to do but gossip about their in-laws and have extra-marital affairs with other men, the freshly launched channel ‘Colors’ from Viacom18 came up with a new TV Serial ‘Balika Vadhu’. Though my attitude towards daily soaps is completely indifferent, like many 20-year olds, but the concept of this particular serial appeared to be quite appealing, since it is different from the mundane TV soaps and at the same time highlights the menace of early marriage still subsisting in contemporary India. The trailer was sensitive yet cute and beneficial in generating interest among the masses. A small, bubbly village girl, still ignorant about the meaning of marriage, but all excited to wear new clothes, eat sweets and see people coming to her place is shown inviting the viewers to her wedding.

   

As the name suggests, the story revolves around the life of an 8 year old child bride Anandi, married to an equally young boy Jagdish. Her education is discontinued and she is sent off on a journey to discover new customs and relationships. Amidst the joyous marriage ceremony and the merriment of the relatives, Anandi’s teacher appears who tries to explain them the peril of getting their children married at an immature age. But her protests are ignored and her attempts to stop the marriage from taking place are failed as she is kidnapped by a policeman. Meanwhile, Anandi gets to know from her friend that her marriage will not be taking place because of her teacher. She starts crying, not because she is upset due to her marriage being broken, but for the reason that she will have to give back the new clothes and ornaments adorning her.

   

What follows is Anandi’s discovery of herself in an alien environment, among people who are complete strangers for her. She wakes up in the morning to find herself in an unfamiliar house, she looks around and starts crying and the way she says ‘Mujhe apni asli maa ke paas jaana hai’ (I want to go home to my real mother), is deeply touching. While her parents-in-law; Sumitra and Bhairav are extremely understanding and caring, her husband’s grandmother (Dadisa) and father’s brother (Tauji) perfectly fit into the picture of monsters-in-law. Dadisa, who is a troublesome woman, is irked when she sees Anandi at play and orders her to cook food. She is supported by her parents-in-law who treat her like their own daughter and stand by her. They also encourage her to continue her studies.

   

Avika Gor who plays Anandi has done an incredible job. Her cheerful role accompanied by her cute looks and innocence in no time fetched her place in every heart. Although every scene is lovely in its own way, there are a few heart-touching scenes where her credulity is reflected perfectly.

   

Even though the practice of child marriage has been declared illegal in India since the passing of the ‘Child Marriage Restraint Act, 1929’, it is still prevalent in parts of Rajasthan, Gujarat, Haryana and Himachal Pradesh. Set in a village of Rajasthan, the serial portrays (in a sensible manner) the miseries faced by the young children in India, particularly girls on being married at a tender age. What compliments their misfortune is the presence of nasty, depraved in-laws. Additionally, the superstitions, gender discrimination and malpractices still haunting the country in the name of ‘tradition’ have been unfolded. One example could be stated from the scene of Anandi’s wedding, where she wants to go with her friends to see the Barat, but is stopped by a relative saying that if the bride hears the music of the barat she becomes deaf. On hearing this, the innocent girl gets frightened and tries to close her ears but is upset as she could still hear the music.

   

Jagdish (Avinash Mukherjee), the young husband, who is the ‘chiraag’ of the family, is treated like a prince, stuffed with food specially cooked in ghee, while his wife is asked to eat in the plate in which her husband consumed the food.

   

I often used to wonder why the social menace of child marriage is still in practice, even when the Government has declared it as punishable. Why young boys and girls are forced into the responsibilities an institution like marriage demands while they are still in cradles? The answer to it is again in the serial, which is the existence of unscrupulous cops, whose mouths can easily be shut with the power of money getting the marriage certificate legally approved. This TV program is a strong initiative towards discouraging this evil. A large number of scenes have been shot outdoors, which gives a break from the usual soaps confined to a room or a house. The dialogues spoken by the characters are in Marwadi language, which gives a real flavor of the rural Rajasthan. The script is written in such a way that every family living in a village can see their own daughter in Anandi and relate themselves to her family.

   

The program begins with an important note in Hindi: “According to the National Family Health Survey (NFHS-3) 2005-2006, a research shows that approximately 45% women between 20-24 years of age in different parts of the country have been married before they turned 18. For a nation to be successful, such malpractice has to be eradicated from the roots to secure a better future for the forthcoming generations”.

   
Kanika Bedi

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Comments:
Karishma Joshi on September 16th, 2008 at 2:34 pm |

Hello
I like the Programme very much .
We all watch it together .
We all love Aanandi and Jagdish .
I hate her Dadisa
&
Her Tauji .
But we really Love you Aanandi .
Great Job Doing by all the team of
Baalika vadhu.
Keep it up .
And
Best of Luck
Our Best wishes with you Aanandi .

Himanshi Panwar on September 18th, 2008 at 4:08 pm |

Hi,

I love this serial.. this serial is showing the fact of the life that is still present in small villages of india. Specially i love Aanandi and Jagdesh…
best of luck

Debomita Biswas on September 18th, 2008 at 4:35 pm |

Anandi looks preety but she does not look innocent at all rather she looks overmatured and manipulative.Jagdish is innocent and is doing a far better performance.Dadi saa is doing really Good.I love Suguna too.

kinjal on September 20th, 2008 at 9:27 am |

i love sumitra ji .he done a graeat job .i very much like his dresss .keep it up.

kinjal on September 20th, 2008 at 9:30 am |

i like the titile song and song like “thari chidakli ud jay la “i m lso rajasthani and i like the language of rajasthan .i m very proud of the serial like balika vadhu.

RASMI ARRAWAL on September 20th, 2008 at 12:47 pm |

ME AND MY FAMILY LOVE THIS SERIAL AND ITS CHARACTERS. IT REALLY SHOWS THE REALITY WHICH CAN NOT BE REALISED AND ACCEPTED BY THE SOCIETY. IT EFFECTS MY LIFE VERY MUCH BECAUSE MARRIAGE CHANGES THE LIFE EVEN IT HAPPENS IN LATE YEARS.

Mukesh kapoor on September 22nd, 2008 at 11:17 pm |

really nice serial after a decade….

nice background scores,nice picturisation,nice acting by all…..

kuch kami nhi hai serial mein…10/10

check for more on http://just4lovers.wordpress.com

Aditi on September 23rd, 2008 at 11:19 am |

definetly it is targeted at child marraige, but it is also for us.. for every married girl

wen married, we are forced to follow the same path: innocence-struggle-fight against unfair things.. wen we fail a bit, we get in to our own shell.. start accepting life.. in process devise new means to fight the owrld… leave our innocence.. be more political inspired by saas bahu serials.. and of course not to forget.. miss our parents..and realise their importance all the more………

we are brought up in nuclear family, in most secure environment, preserving our innocence… no visuals of familypolitics (except saas bahu serials;-), or even if do get some touches in our own familoes, its never enough until we get a hands on experience ourselves.

each episode i watch( am working.. cant watch regularly).. i cry, my mom cries at her home.. its cute, and depicts real emotions

NISHIKA on September 23rd, 2008 at 1:52 pm |

hi
i love this serioul very much and i love anandi & jadish also
aap dono bahut acche lagte ho aap bahut acche ho u are so sweet or mere pass words hi nahi hai dear . or meer mummy papa ko bhi aap log bahut pasand ho .

MAMTA SINGH on September 23rd, 2008 at 3:29 pm |

I really like this serial very much. I really love the anandi and her in laws and parents.
I always like to watch this serial.
I see my mom in her mother.
I want the complete CD of this serial.

MAMTA SINGH on September 23rd, 2008 at 3:34 pm |

I like the dresses, and whole makeup of anandi and her mother in law. Also I like the title song of this serial very much.
Very nice…

Nidhi Parikh on September 25th, 2008 at 6:30 pm |

I just llllluuuuuvvvvv watching balika vadhu as it tls us about how in india young girls get married i just hope wen i get married i am not treated like anandi.the only character is like is DADISA because nobody can act like her even in the film industry BALIKA VADHU ROCKS!!!!!!!!!!

Naveen on September 26th, 2008 at 12:44 pm |

i love this serial “balika vadhu” showing the reality of life….
and Anandi is also very cute…… and his cute husband jagdish…. both acting r very awsome as compare to other actors. but i hate her dadisa. so our best wishes with u…

smruti on September 26th, 2008 at 2:24 pm |

when i see balika vadhu i reammber my mother-in- low & father- in-low.i love to watch .all r great

Anukriti singh on September 29th, 2008 at 5:48 pm |

anandi tum mushe bahut pyari lag ti ho aur jagdish bhi

Radha Janotra on October 2nd, 2008 at 12:57 pm |

i really love to watch this serial.my whole family watch this serial.we all love anandi and jagdish.i watch repeat telecast also.mujhe sumitra,bhero ji, aur sugna bhi bahut pasand hai. heyyyy i like phuli also.everybody had done a gr88 job.

Amit Awasthi on October 2nd, 2008 at 1:07 pm |

i luuuuve to watch balika vadhu. i love anandi very much.she is really a sweet and cute girl.she is doing a gr88 job.all the best anandi.my best wishes r always wid u. lots and lots of love……….
regards
amit awasthi

neelam ralhan on October 2nd, 2008 at 1:25 pm |

i love this serial very much. i like anandi very much.she looks very preety.anandi really u r soooooo FUTRI.
i like dadisa also.all had done the superb job.best wishes to the entire team of balika vadhu.

regads
neelam ralhan

satish Kumar on October 4th, 2008 at 12:37 pm |

like the dresses, and whole makeup of anandi and her mother in law. Also I like the title song of this serial very much.
Very nice…

Tulika Srivastava on October 4th, 2008 at 2:22 pm |

I really like this serial because the casting is very good & the very important & very interesting thing is being shown in this serial which is very necessary for us to know about “THE BAL VIVAH” because though we r very developed people butthe position of women in our society is very poor bcoz of not educated in thier mother’s home bcoz they e.i., the people think that the Girls r responsible of maintainous of house. So by this seriel we should understand that a woman should also have all those rights which a man gets in our society………. Now I take ur leave. This was TULIKA SRIVASTAVA OF 11th Standard.I’m a big fan of Avinash Mukherjee e.i., of Jagdish bcoz he’s very sweet & handsome too………. All the best to everybody of BALIKA VADHU team. Keep doing well………..

SAJID on October 5th, 2008 at 6:49 pm |

I am watching this serial i like very much but i am missing some time i want to know the repeat time and actual time please update me.

SAJID on October 5th, 2008 at 7:01 pm |

i am wating for your answer with time i ahve requested time of the serial i dont want to miss this thanks in advance.

rana mukherjee on October 6th, 2008 at 1:27 am |

I just love dis serial i love da way that the serial carries massage for the society,i hope it will maintain its quality after the huge media attention .i have a request i love the title song so please if anybody could provide me dat i will be very thankful,thank u ………..

Abhinav Sharma on October 8th, 2008 at 2:49 pm |

I am Abhinav
I am in 8th class
I am 13yrs old(boy)
i want to play main role in balika vadhu.
send me message at king_abhi02@yahoo.in
this is my ID
I am very talented please send that I am selected or not then I am sending you my pictures

prasad on October 9th, 2008 at 7:09 pm |

Baalika Vadhu is actually an Awesome serial & it touched my heart.

riyaRiya on October 13th, 2008 at 3:14 pm |

very nice serial. I want 2 KNOW more about Gahana

mona.khurana on October 15th, 2008 at 11:17 am |

BAALIKA VADHU….KYA KAMAAL KA T V DHARAVAAHIK HAI ,,,, EK DAM MANTRA MUGADH KAR DENE WAALA SAAMAAJIK KURITI KO IS DHANG SE DARASHAYA KI DEKHANAE WAALLE KE MAN PAR AMIT CHHAP HI CHHORH DETA HAI … HAR PATRA NE KYA BARHIYA BHUUMIKA NIBHAI !!!SABHI APANI APANI JAGE BADHAI KE PAATRA HAIN .

roopal on October 18th, 2008 at 12:00 am |

BALIKA VADHU aisa serial hai jise har age ke log dekhna pasand karte hai..the theme is related to our traditions n superstitions but un buraiyon n reeti riwazo ko jis tarah se present kiya hai..that is heart-touching.all characters are not too famous in screen but their job is really very nice…AANANDI is ofcourse too cute n innocent but at the same time her talkatives are so sesible…SUMITRA..jo itna kucch ah kar bhi hamesha muskurati rahti hai n apne pariwar ko jode rakhti hai..smita i really like u since the serial ITIHAS..one more character GAHANA is so nice..DADISA apne role me bahut suit karti hai..all characters are too good

Mrs.Stota Dasgupta on October 24th, 2008 at 10:41 am |

It is verry mind blowing serial.My request please dont make Champa a defeated girl.She should come out with education, blessed by some nobel person and give a good lesson to the villagers. It may be little filmi but at the same time it may give some courage to the village girls.

Dolly Mahour on October 24th, 2008 at 5:13 pm |

I love Aanandi Jagdish also. It is very mind blowing serial. I like Sumitra ji & her dress. I like Gahna & Sugna also.

Rajesh Mahour on October 24th, 2008 at 5:18 pm |

I really love Aanandi & Jagdish also.
I really love this serial because this serial casting is very good. I love Title Song “thari chilakli ud jay la” I love thei serial.

Manish Bangar on October 29th, 2008 at 2:52 pm |

Really it was the beautiful and real concept which was shown in he serial BALIKA VADHU.
The character of Anandi in the serial was undoubtedly remarkable.
The serial really shows the tradition of old India.
Really it gives a good lesson to the Indian people as well as whole world.
The role of Jagdishia was also good.
I really appreciate the Director and maker of this lovingly serial.

neha on November 1st, 2008 at 7:54 am |

i love this serial. this serial is very amazingand very success.

nikita on November 2nd, 2008 at 1:28 pm |

i like this serial very much. it is very heart- touching. i watch it daily. when anandi or anyone else cries i also cry with them. i like anandi very much.

anuj on November 5th, 2008 at 3:52 pm |

mere pure parivaar ko anandi or jagdish bohot pasand hai.

neeru rexwal on November 5th, 2008 at 3:59 pm |

i like anandi.she is very sweet,cute,lovingly. anandi or jagdish kii jodi mujhe bohot pasand hai.

gaurav tyagi on November 11th, 2008 at 8:45 pm |

good camera work i am also cameraman

nikita rinwa on November 12th, 2008 at 9:04 pm |

i jst luv dis serial!!
mujhe lagta hai its damn good!
anandi & jagdisha both of u rocks!
i jst luv the tile song!
all the best for the future!!

Avijit on November 27th, 2008 at 9:46 pm |

I m realy turned by this show “BALIKA VADHU”. I like each & every character in this play specialy Anandi & her young husband Jagdish. I like the title song very much. I m a 12 std boy, but after watching the programe i became its regular viewer. I want 2 do something to stop these kind of social act. I should admire the total team of the show. I dnt have cabel so i have to go 2 my neighbour’s house for watching it. I would request the directer 2 transmit this show in doorodorshan DTH. Wish for a long life for this show.

manish patidar on January 2nd, 2009 at 4:03 am |

aanandi whatever u r doing its ur job.but khabhi mene ye sapne me b nhi socha tha ki itni kam age ki ladki itna kuch or itna accha role kar sakti he.really i impress u.
i want to talk u.plz mail me. i want to listen ur voice

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